What to do when you are hurt by a friend?

1. Make sure you read the situation correctly.
2. Try talking about the issue with your friend.
3. Discuss it with someone else you trust.
4. Look for ways to resolve the conflict.
5. Know when not to talk.
6. Know when to cut your losses.
7. Let it go.
8. Don’t paint all of your friends with the same brush.

What do you say when your friend hurts you?

It could go like this: “You’ve been a great friend to me for many months, and I treasure our relationship. There’s something I want to talk to you about so I can better understand something that I might be creating a story around.” State your issues in an “I felt hurt when you _______.”

What does it mean when you hurt me in a friendship?

When you hurt me, it showed me who really cared about me when you displayed that you did not. It showed me the type of people that I have in my life, the type of people that I need in my life and the type of people that I want in my life. Our friendship was not meant to be and it’s because you hurt me.

Is it normal for a friend to say something hurtful?

Sometimes, no matter how close you are with someone, your friend may say or do something hurtful. It’s usually unintentional (though it may be deliberate), but it’s often made worse by the fact that the person is your friend.

Why do I feel sick when I hang out with friends?

If you suddenly feel sick when you have upcoming plans with them, it may be your body trying to tell you to avoid all that emotional stress. Or if your stomach is tied in knots the day after you hang out, you might be physically processing the stress of coping with so much toxicity.

What should I do if my friends are not on my Side?

Don’t paint all of your friends with the same brush. Sometimes people who we think are on our side turn out not to be, for reasons we may never learn. If this happens, don’t seek revenge, but move on and away from the hurt. Other friends can help with this. Most friends don’t set out to hurt us.