Why do I get the urge to Crossdress?

These feelings are often a result of disapproval from their partner or their own concern about negative social or professional ramifications. Most people who cross-dress do not fit into the diagnostic standards of transvestic disorder. Cross-dressing is done for many reasons, including a desire to subvert gender norms.

How do I tell my wife that I Crossdress?

Let her know you have not told her because you are just beginning to understand how important cross-dressing it is to you in your life and the one person you trust and love is her. Tell her about your early experiences with cross-dressing. Schedule an appointment with a therapist for both of you.

Are leggings only for girls?

Yes! Boys can and should wear leggings. They are just comfy trousers!

Can I wear a skirt to school?

If you’re nervous, practice by wearing skirts and shorts to school. If your school has short days, try it then, and it will take a lot of stress out of it. Remember that you can always wear tights or leggings under the dress if it will make it easier, and you can wear a comforting jacket on top.

How do you deal with cross-dressing urges?

Cross dressing is usually about wanting to wear pretty things, so wear pretty manly items instead of a dress. A new pair of shoes usually makes any cross dresser happy. Talk to a counselor about your urges if you can’t control them on your own. You can also ask friends who cross dress how they deal with their urges.

Should you be worried if a loved one is crossdressing?

If you’ve recently realised that a man or boy in your life is crossdressing you probably have many questions. Many people are concerned, worried, even in a state of shock at the news that a loved one is crossdressing.

How can I help a crossdresser and their partner?

A crossdresser and their partner or family member will find it much easier if they find someone they trust to avoid the isolation and loneliness that some people experience because they feel alone with their worries In my time as a counsellor I have become experienced at helping men who are struggling with their feelings and sense of identity.

How can cross dressing counselling help?

Cross dressing counselling can help men to better understand the compulsion they feel and to become more happy, comfortable and confident in themselves. I also help families and friends of men who want to crossdress to both understand the issue better and to help them express their feelings and to also become more comfortable about it.