Why do I push him away and then want him back?

However, some people push others away more often than seems obviously justified. Sometimes it can feel like somebody loses interest even though things were going perfectly. If you feel someone pulling away once your relationship has started to get a little more serious, it could be because they have a fear of intimacy.

Why do I push him away?

Pushing people away is one way of avoiding intimacy. In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense mechanism for people afraid of getting hurt in relationships. The thought of a close intimate relationship makes you uncomfortable, so you do what you can to avoid intimacy as a means of self-preservation.

Why would a guy push you away?

In order to learn how to get the guy back, we need to think about the reasons why he may have pushed you away, in the first place. Is it because… He thinks you’re a red flag? Something about your behavior alerted him to something he doesn’t like. It doesn’t matter what it was, but it spooked him, so he ran away. He might come back, he might not.

What to do when he pulls away from you?

1. Pause. Sometimes what to do when he pulls away is more about what NOT to do than anything else. When you sense that he’s withdrawing from you (or worse, you get dumped), I want you to stop everything. Match his withdrawal with your own. Take time to gather your thoughts, marshall your inner strength and get back to your emotional center.

What do you do when your ex boyfriend pushes you away?

I am being pushed away: Help! The most important thing to keep in mind right now is that you don’t want to force anything. If your ex wants space right now, you have to give him space. I understand that you might be thinking, “ He pushed me away so I have to do whatever I can to explain to him that he doesn’t need to do that!”

Why does my boyfriend Push Me Away Out of spite?

Now this can be because he’s heartbroken, but it can also be because he’s angry. He might be pushing you away out of spite because he feels that you hurt or disrespected him in some way. You know better than I do! It’s very important to be honest with yourself right now.