Can I still have a social life with a baby?

Many parents-to-be worry that having a baby will mean they’ll never go out again. While spending time with friends may not be as spontaneous or frequent as before – and it’s likely that you’ll have less time, energy and money – it is still possible to maintain a social life.

How do I manage my life after having a baby?

Do anything you love, read, listen to music, yoga or simply ‘do nothing’. Spend enough time, just for yourself, this will help you de-clutter and start afresh. Indulge in ‘me’ time more often, since a happy you will keep everyone around happy.

Does having children mean giving up your social life?

Together, we’ve learned that having children doesn’t have to mean giving up your former social self, but it does mean rebalancing your priorities and making them count. With a little advice from mothers who have been there, I slowly learned that maintaining a social life, even with children in tow, was possible.

Will my social life change if I become a mom?

Accept that your social life will change, but it doesn’t have to be for the worse. Katherine has always made sure her friendships don’t suffer because she’s a mom. “One’s life will always be better when you think of others,” she says. “By that I mean genuine care for what is going on in your friend’s life.”

Does becoming a parent mean your old life dies?

Yes! There’s a stigma out there that becoming a parent means that your old life—your life with friends, socializing, and a fun nightlife—dies. But there are plenty of us out there with our minds set on defying this.

How can I socialize with my child without feeling guilty?

Decide on your general philosophy for socializing with your children. Not every baby is the same. And not every bar (or socializing locale) is the same. Knowing your and your child’s limits is key. Don’t feel guilty because you want to go out sometimes.