Can narcissists and borderline personality disorder fall in love?

Unfortunately, as their real interest in the person is exactly this shallow, they often leave the relationship just as suddenly as they began it. Narcissistic and Borderline individuals can fall in love, but they are likely to expect such very different things out of the relationship that the relationship is unlikely to be successful for very long.

Do narcissistic men fall in love easily?

The narcissistic men that I call “Romantics” fall in love easily and love being in love. They also love all the trappings of the perfect romance as much as you do: dinner by candle light, cozy weekends in the cabin in the woods, and moonlight walks along the beach.

Why do narcissists move on so quickly?

You may be thinking that narcissist move on so quickly because they never get attached to their partner but that’s not true at all. Narcissists go through the healing process a little differently than normal people. Their denial and anger usually comes in form of devaluation and discard.

What is a narcissistic supply?

A narcissistic supply is anything that assures a narcissist of their own importance. In my previous article on how to bring a narcissist back, I said that when a narcissist sees their ex in pain after a breakup, it gives them sense of power and self-importance.

What is borderline personality disorder (BPD)?

People with a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder share many similar characteristics. They often exhibit a distorted sense of self, struggle with anger issues, and vacillate between idealizing others and devaluing them.

What are the similarities between narcissism and borderline personality disorder?

If you challenge them or try to hold them accountable, they will lash out and punish you. But most of all, the similarity lies in the depth and expression of anger. Narcissistic and borderline individuals don’t fight fairly or consistently.

Why do borderline and narcissistic clients bond instantly?

My Borderline and Narcissistic clients often bond instantly when they barely know each other. They tend to do this for different reasons: The Borderline Reason: Many people with Borderline adaptations live for love. They use connecting to someone as a remedy for feelings of emptiness, restlessness, and loneliness .