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Do INFJ men like to be pursued?

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Do INFJ men like to be pursued?

You’re waiting for someone else to make the first move. Frankly, a lot of us INFJs wait for other people to make the first move. It’s true, we INFJs like to be pursued. That way, we know we’re really, truly wanted. But sometimes that means we don’t make a move when we should.

How do INFJ men comfort?

How to Care for an INFJ

  1. Surprise us. INFJs are known to be organized and enjoy having a plan, but there’s a part of us that enjoys spontaneity as well.
  2. Feed us. I mean this both figuratively and literally.
  3. Check in on us.
  4. Give us some space.
  5. Spend quality time with us.
  6. Write it down.
  7. Make us laugh.
  8. Listen to us.
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How do Infj men communicate?

When you are communicating with an INFJ:

  1. BE ENCOURAGING AND AFFIRMING.
  2. SHARE THE BIG PICTURE AND SHARE PERSONAL MEANING.
  3. GIVE THEM TIME TO PROCESS THEIR THOUGHTS.
  4. OFFER FEEDBACK OR MAKE CHANGES EARLY.
  5. HAVING TO WORK WITH INCOMPETENT OR ‘SLOW’ PEOPLE CONTINUALLY.
  6. BEING GIVEN TOO MUCH DETAILED INFORMATION TO DIGEST CONSTANTLY.

Why do INFJ men feel unhappy?

Many INFJ males might have developed some of the traits that go against the male stereotype, like hiding one’s own feelings and being untrue to themselves. Because of the development of such feelings and holding part of themselves back confined in their own personal space, they start feeling unhappy, trapped and disingenuous.

Why do INFJ males hide their less stereotypical male qualities?

At the same time they hate anything superficial, and want much more depth than most people are willing to offer. INFJ males will often hide their less stereotypical male qualities, instead of allowing others to see them. Because of the way the world operates they might feel afraid to be completely open at a young age.

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What are INFJs like as a person?

INFJs males might even feel the need to stifle these qualities when they are younger, in order to fit in. They are in touch with the emotions of others, and truly care about people. They want to do whatever they can to help and to make a real difference in the world around them.

Are INFJ males contradictory?

In my experience, INFJ males can be an enigma of sorts, living a life full of contradictions. Here are just ten of the many contradictions of the INFJ man.

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