Do narcissists like arguing?

Become boring by not arguing with them. Narcissists love a fight. They will bait you, and poke you, and incite you. They will drop politically polarizing comments and insults. When you don’t take the bait, it is actually frustrating for them.

Why do narcissists want to argue?

Do Not Take the Bait Many Narcissists say provocative and nasty things to get a response from you. Usually they do it because they feel angered or insulted by something you have done and want to start a fight. Or, they may be anxious or angry about something else entirely and are taking it out on you.

What do narcissists say when you say something negative about them?

If you say something negative or accusatory to the narcissist, they will accuse you of having changed. “I had so much respect for you before this.” “You aren’t the person I thought you were.” “You have changed so much. I don’t even know who you are anymore!” Now that they can’t manipulate and control you, you are the person with the problem!

What do narcissists hate most About You?

Above anything, the narcissist hates the idea that you might remember life before you met them. This concern is their greatest fear, and they’ll engage in many manipulative tactics to prevent it from manifesting. Narcissists use love-bombing to keep you captured and intrigued.

What do narcissists tell you when you’re in a relationship?

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, he/she will tell you (for example), that: They don’t want to settle down anytime soon. They love dogs, hate cats. They love meat too much to EVER be vegetarian. Are afraid of heights.

Do narcissists have issues with authority?

Narcissists detest authority. That’s because they resent having to answer to anybody but themselves. Any sense of authority threatens their inherent desires for power and control. It’s not uncommon for narcissists to have issues at work, school, or with the law. Has the narcissist in your life had multiple jobs?