Do You Love Your abusive partner and not want to leave?

You love your abusive partner so much so that you justify the abuses and would not want to leave them. No matter how much abuse you are, you would not leave because you are emotionally attached to your partner. For every abusive deed, you will try to justify it either by blaming yourself or by taking empathy on the abuser.

Do You Still Miss Your abusive ex After leaving them?

Even after leaving them, you will still miss your abusive ex. Abusive partners are not at all abusive in the beginning. They spend a good amount of time showing testimonies of their love to their partners before revealing their true colours. Hence, you believe in those moments of love while your abusive ex was faking it all along.

Would You Leave your partner if you are emotionally attached?

No matter how much abuse you are, you would not leave because you are emotionally attached to your partner. For every abusive deed, you will try to justify it either by blaming yourself or by taking empathy on the abuser.

What happens to your emotions when you leave an abusive relationship?

After leaving your abusive relationship, no one can predict your emotions exactly. But after some time of mentoring survivors, I’ve found many similarities between other survivors’ emotional experiences and my own.

Do You Feel Like you Miss Your Abuser when you go no contact?

Know that the feeling of missing your abuser is a symptom of the brain experiencing detox. “No contact” speeds up the process. Any contact is like scratching a scab; it will prolong the pain, something no sane person wants. . . .

How do I remember why I Left my abuser?

Even general statements such as, “My abuser put me down daily” or “My abuser isolated me from friends and family” helps you remember why you left, and stops you from minimizing the impact of the abuse. . . . What If I’m Replaced Right Away?