How do I make it up to my mom after a fight?

Tough Stuff

1. Step 1: Let it simmer down. Right after the fight, step away and give yourself time to calm down.
2. Step 2: Say the magic word.
3. Step 3: Try to understand.
4. Step 4: Come to a compromise.
5. Step 5: Move On.
6. A fight might seem like it’s the end of the world, but everything will get better with time…don’t stress it.

How do I fix my fight with my mom?

Show respect by doing the following:

1. Try to listen and pay attention when she speaks.
2. Stop texting on your phone when she is talking.
3. Acknowledge all the things she does for you.
4. Share things with her that are happening in your life.
5. Ask her opinion about important topics.
6. Refrain from interrupting when she’s talking.

How do I make up for hurting my mom?

Begin with a sincere expression of remorse. Your apology should begin with something like, “I’m incredibly sorry for what I did and how it hurt you.” Remember to strive for sincerity. If you don’t genuinely feel sorry, your mom can pick up on this. Make sure to go into the situation with your mom’s feelings in mind.

How do you make your mom happy after you made her mad?

Hug your mom, if she allows it. Give her a kiss on the cheek. Do something that shows her you understand her anger and you’re interested in reconnecting. If she’s still simmering in anger, make sure to return to this step later when she’s calmer.

What to do if Mom is mad at you?

Don’t try to talk to her when she’s mad at you, that will most likely make her more upset. Give her some alone time to cool off, then approach her gently with love. It is never good to say “Mom I really hate you!” Because if something happens and you can’t see her anymore you are going to feel really guilty.

How do I get my mom to forgive me for fighting?

1. Go to her and apologize. After both you and your mom have gotten some distance from the fight, seek her out to apologize. By now, you should have a new level of appreciation for her position as your parent. Go to your mom and ask if now is a good time to talk (being mindful of the HALT states).

Why do I always fight with my mom?

We often fight with family members because they’re the ones who’ll love us no matter how many times we tell them they’re unfair or mean or totally don’t get it. After you’ve slammed the door to your room, take a moment to appreciate all the things you tend to take for granted about your mom.

How do I deal with my mom after a bad argument?

Express to your mom that, after some deep thinking, you realized that you were inconsiderate or inappropriate during the fight. Give her a few points about the things you noted about your own behavior that were not helpful to the argument. Your mom will probably be astounded that you took the time to consider her perspective.

How do I deal with my mom when she’s mad at me?

Pretty terrible, probably. Talk to your mom calmly and with respect; she deserves it, as do you. If a rough day at school is fueling your rage, think about your mom’s day. Maybe she’s in a bad mood, too (yes, parents are allowed to be off their game).