How do you deal with an obsessed mother?

1. Tell your mom about how her obsession affects you. Explain the impact it has on you and your relationship.
2. Ask for what you’d like to have happen instead. Make a clear request.
3. Really listen to her answer to your request. Hear what she’s willing to do.
4. If she’s on board with your request, great.

Can a mother be too attached to her child?

Relying on your child to meet all or most of your emotional and social needs is an unfair burden to place on him or her. A parent being overly attached to a child can put the child’s development on hold and can stunt emotional and psychological growth.

How do I stop smothering my child?

Stop smothering Allow your child to develop his or her own interests. Recognize that your child’s interests may differ from yours. Allow your child (if he is older than a toddler) to have a little independent time each day. Let your preschooler have a play date out with another parent and child you know.

Is my mom being too overbearing?

“Your mom should be able to make decisions about friends, work, and life for the most part on her own.” If not, she’s being too overbearing. Although it may be touching that your mom still thinks of you as her baby, watch out if she overly meddles or interferes with your independence.

Is emotional intimacy making you clingy?

Emotional intimacy is a double-edged sword; it brings joy, but it can also make you clingy. In the past few posts we’ve been dealing with people who have problems trusting and truly opening themselves to intimacy.

Why is my mom so controlling and manipulative?

If the dynamic with your mom is strained because she’s too controlling, constantly makes you feel guilty, or manipulates and gaslights you, you’re not alone. Underlying issues are likely behind your mom’s behavior, and getting to the root of them is a key first step toward improving the relationship.

How do I Stop Feeling guilty for leaving my loved one alone?

Try to stop feeling guilty about this. If your loved one protests, just know that they’re safe and will get over this “slight” eventually. This person is generally safe on their own but tends to panic when they are left alone (or with another caregiver).