How do you deal with someone who tells lies about you?

How to deal with liars.

1. Separate yourself from their behavior. One of the biggest problems we face when encountering a liar is usually that of personalization.
2. Check and confirm your facts.
3. Protect yourself.
4. Ask for the story in reverse.
5. Call them out.
6. Hold on to your integrity.
7. Always reflect.
8. Accept who they are.

How a lie can destroy a relationship?

Lying quickly erodes that trust, hurting both parties in the process. But lies do hurt. By telling a loved one a lie, they will feel betrayed by you and it is this feeling of betrayal that can lead to a breakdown in communication, making them feel even more vulnerable than they already are!

What to do if someone lies to you about something?

You may choose to have a conversation with the liar in private or with others whom the lie affects. In either case, it’s important you have evidence that backs up your claim, or you very well may be called a liar yourself. Just make certain you are honest and direct with the person who lied.

What happens when we talk about lying?

When we talk about lying, we’re not including innocent white lies as in, “Did you close the outside lights?” We’re talking about untruths that affect a relationship to the point where trust becomes simply a meaningless word. It no longer is an active part of being a couple. That breaks the strong bond of partnership.

What is an example of a lying problem?

Lies such as, “I didn’t call because my cell phone died.” Or, “Of course I was at work. Don’t you trust me?” Another “lying” problem is the person who consistently lies. The lies may seem innocuous and innocent but the reality is that this person feels lies are acceptable.

Is there such a thing as a lie that is never told?

A catchy phrase, yes, but one that holds a lot of truth (note the irony in an article about lying). You see, a lie is never told in pure isolation. Someone will have a reason for lying, even if those reasons may not seem very reasonable.