How do you deflate a narcissist?

Here are the steps you should take:

1. Don’t argue about ‘right’ and ‘wrong’
2. Instead, try to empathise with their feelings.
3. Use ‘we’ language.
4. Don’t expect an apology.
5. Ask about a topic that interests them.
6. Don’t take the bait yourself.
7. Remember to put yourself first.

What is the worst type of narcissist?

This Is The Worst Type of Narcissist – They Are Socially Toxic. Narcissistic perfectionists — like the late Steve Jobs — are arguably the worst type of narcissists. They are grandiose, see themselves as special, have a high sense of entitlement and extremely high expectations of others.

How to outsmart a narcissist?

Don’t. You’ll never change them and they’ll never admit to their issues,so you’re better off without them.

Know what you’re dealing with. First,know that they are a narcissist.

Adjust your expectations. You’ll never “fix” them or get them to join your team.

Get what you want out of it.

How to shut down a narcissist?

Do what you can to avoid taking their bait – and giving bait. You must do what you can to avoid engaging with them.

Clearly communicate your needs and boundaries – in writing if possible.

Prepare an if/when list. Take some quiet time to write down every challenging thing you predict your narcissist might do or speak.

Believe you deserve better – so you stop apologizing to them. Stop apologizing so much to your narcissist. Apologizing will only backfire on you!

Accept you cannot change them – so you’re less surprised and less frustrated. I am not telling you to accept a narcissist’s terrible treatment.

How to get over a narcissist?

Accept he’s a narcissist.

Set boundaries.

Get mentally healthier.

Let yourself be angry and disappointed for as long as you need.

Don’t try to get closure.

Forgive yourself.

Go no contact.

Don’t let the past get to you.

Be patient with your friends.

Be Happy!