How do you get over the fact that your boyfriend has an ex?

Ignore the intrusive thoughts and keep your “my boyfriend’s past makes me sick” insecurities to yourself. Retroactive jealousy does go away, but you have to train your brain to resist it….Follow these tips to get over your boyfriend’s past.

1. Accept reality.
2. Ask questions.
3. Be respectful.
4. Don’t compare yourself to others.

Should I Make my Girlfriend feel bad for having many lovers?

It’s normal to feel strange when hearing about your girlfriend’s sexual history. You want to be able to feel like you matter to her, and learning that you’re one of many might harm that perception. Just try to understand that you don’t need to make her feel bad for having many lovers in the past. Should this matter to you?

Should I be worried about my girlfriend’s past sexual history?

If your concerns are related to her sexual history and everything in her past has been safe and consensual, the short answer is no. If she’s had a lot of consensual sexual partners and hasn’t betrayed any previous partnership through cheating, there’s no reason to worry about her past.

Should I Erase my Girlfriend’s past?

 If you do, you can erase your girlfriend’s past, along with her one night stands you don’t approve of.  If you don’t have such an eraser, you’re going to just have to accept her for who she is NOW.  If she’s a good girlfriend to you, isn’t that the most important thing? If she’s loving, loyal, and committed to you, isn’t that all you can ask for?

Should I bring up the past with my girlfriend?

It’s best not to dwell on the past openly, if you’re gonna dwell at least do it alone and don’t bring it up to her bc it seems like when you do bring it up to her, you make her cry. I know it’s not intentional, bc again I did the same thing.