How do you know if you should stay after infidelity?

When to Walk Away After Infidelity: 7 Signs It Might Be Time To…

• Your Partner Doesn’t Apologize.
• Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Get Counseling.
• Your Partner Doesn’t Show Desire to Put in the Work.
• They are Still in Touch with the Person They Cheated on You With.
• Your Partner Doesn’t Seem Committed to the Relationship.

How long should you separate after an affair?

Most places require six months to a year of separation before this can happen. This is a time to fight for your marriage, not fighting against your spouse, but against evil forces that are attempting to destroy your life.

What happens when a woman becomes pregnant from an affair?

It was a testament to how passionate their lovemaking was. Most women who become pregnant from an affair have an abortion as soon as the pregnancy is discovered. But there are many who simply cannot let their child die that way. For these, they are faced with very difficult choices.

Can I just tell my husband nothing about the affair?

Of course you can decide to just tell your husband nothing about the affair, but I think it is very different since a child is involved. This would be lying to your husband and your child for a lifetime.

Should I tell my husband the absolute truth about the baby?

Telling my husband the absolute truth is not an option! It’s either keep the baby and tell my husband nothing, or abort. The man I’m pregnant by knows and says he is willing to go along with whatever I decide. He’s not someone that I think I’ll end up with in the long run, although his is a nice guy.

How common is pregnancy in affairs?

And I have counseled and received letters from the lovers, who know the child is theirs and are tormented by a desire to become involved in their child’s life as it is growing up. Pregnancies are very common in affairs. The passion of an affair makes birth control less effective, and it’s often never even used.