How do you show Intj you care?

Here are some suggestions that don’t run counter to our personality type.

1. Subtly do something nice for someone. When INTJs express emotions, they tend to do it in a kinesthetic way.
2. Be present.
3. Focus on the happy.
4. Name your feelings.
5. Mirror others.
6. Tell a story.
7. Let it out in private.
8. Touch and feel.

How do you engage an Intj?

11 Ways to Be a Good Partner for an INTJ in Life and at Work

1. Share your long-term vision.
2. Be prepared to keep up with their formidable logic and willpower.
3. Understand their complex minds.
4. Discuss the future.
5. Ask them about their “theory” on everything.
6. Listen to their contingency plans.

How do you deal with an INTJ?

If you want to vent, make sure that the INTJ knows that you’re venting, as opposed to wanting help with a problem. If you want advice, then be careful about ignoring the advice too often as, for the INTJ, you become a bother, and your attitude an insult.

Do intjs like to tell others what they need to know?

Believe it or not, INTJs do not enjoy telling others, “I told you so.” Nor do we enjoy focusing our time, effort, and attention (tea) on you, only to have you treat that advice as though it’s irrelevant. If you want to vent, make sure that the INTJ knows that you’re venting, as opposed to wanting help with a problem.

What is INTJ delegation?

Delegation is a powerful skill for an INTJ, because it lets you focus your attention on the most important work like strategizing and planning. But not every career lets you delegate the same way.

What do INTJ’s need to know about loyalty?

In true INTJ fashion, I’ve created a checklist of seven crucial items, based on input from a group of 25 INTJs. 1. We must be able to count on you. Or rather, we’re methodically loyal. This is part of our wiring. From a young age, most INTJs have a hard time understanding when someone doesn’t really mean what they say.