Is it possible to stop loving your parents?

Most parent-child relationships are far from perfect. Sometimes this includes adult children not feeling the love they wish they had. However, it’s possible to harbor negative feelings toward your parents and still respect yourself and live life with your integrity intact.

What do you do when you don’t like your parents anymore?

Talk to a trustworthy friend or family member. Choose someone you feel comfortable talking to and who you know will not turn around and repeat what you said to your parents. Try to avoid becoming too dependent on this person for your emotional needs. Just talk when you need someone to listen to you.

Can I stop loving my mother?

Yes you could stop loving your parents especially after what they did to you. Sometimes parents are incapable to love us like we want them to be. And as the years go by, it’s easier for us to loose any feeling we have toward them. If you think this is the best for you, I wish you to live your life fully and be happy.

Reading your story I can understand why do you ask this. Yes you could stop loving your parents especially after what they did to you. Sometimes parents are incapable to love us like we want them to be. And as the years go by, it’s easier for us to loose any feeling we have toward them.

What causes parents to fall in love with their children?

Parents’ unfulfilled primitive hunger for love and care from their childhood causes them, in turn, to focus these strong desires on their children. They confuse the powerful feelings of longing and possession they have toward their offspring for genuine feelings of love.

What do we learn about love from our parents?

These observations include the behaviors modeled by her parents in an intact marriage and between her parent and a significant other or new spouse in the case of divorce or remarriage. We learn about love by the love we are shown and by love’s absence or presence in our family of origin.

Why do parents distance themselves from their children?

If the parents were hurt in their developmental years, they will have problems accepting love and intimacy from their children. Faced with the emotional pain that it causes them, parents will unconsciously distance themselves from their child. 4. Parents have unresolved trauma in their own lives.