Is Your Girlfriend-less past crushing your confidence?

It’s no secret that women LOVE confident men. And your girlfriend-less past is probably crushing your confidence around women. You feel like women can tell you’ve been single all your life and you dread them finding out and pitying you. I get it – but seriously man – this is NOT a big deal.

What happens to a guy who never had a girlfriend?

Most guys who’ve never had a girlfriend come extremely close to getting one but always fall down at the last hurdle. You go on a few dates – you’re texting each other everyday – but then something you do suddenly turns her from hot to cold and you can’t figure out why.

What does it mean when a girl says You’re a great guy?

If women always tell you, “You’re a great guy but I don’t feel that spark…” It’s because they don’t feel a sexual connection with you. And that’s most likely because you haven’t taken the right actions to facilitate that attraction. You may be sweet and have engaging conversations.

How do you approach a girl who is just a friend?

Once you feel a connection, you have to lead with your interest. Then see how she’s responding and just your approach from there. Guys who always end up as “just a friend” don’t realize how small their windows of opportunity are. They spend months chatting a girl up at school or work before inviting her to do something together.

Can a shy man have a girlfriend?

The truth is that many shy men can easily go years without having a girlfriend, dating or even kissing a girl. Some women claim that shyness is cute and that you should just “be yourself”… but when they say “shy” they probably mean the strong silent type of guy, not the nervous shaky socially awkward mess like many of us are.

How do I find a girlfriend?

The first step to finding a girlfriend is to put yourself into situations where you can meet many different girls that have a high chance of being compatible with you. This doesn’t mean you both need to be the #1 and #2 Harry Potter fans. It’s more about finding people who have compatible values, lifestyle,…

Why do I have such high standards when it comes to dating?

Because you simply haven’t met a girl who’s good enough for you yet. You have high standards and will not settle for anything less than the girl of your dreams. Correct?

A good way forward might be to consider internet dating. Many people do this and there are sites for every possible taste – including people who want to find a meaningful connection with someone. I think you have a lot to offer. You just need to step out from behind the smoke screen.