Should I add gender pronouns?

Pronouns should form an integral part of the signature. If you decide to include gender pronouns in your email signature, it’s best to add them next to your name. That’s where most people expect to see this information.

Why do gender pronouns matter?

Properly using an individual’s correct pronoun is an easy way to show respect. In an instance where a pronoun is not indicated or unknown, gender-neutral pronouns provide a useful option. Invalidating someone’s identity puts a strain on how a person moves about in society and how that individual interacts with others.

What are the arguments against nonbinary pronouns?

The objections to the pronouns are unconvincing, occasionally bizarre, and totally wrong. Backlash argument no. 1: nonbinary pronouns violate the religious tenet that there are only two genders, male and female. Or, if you prefer science to religion, the pronouns violate the biological truth that there are only two sexes, XY and XX.

Do you support the usage of preferred gender pronouns?

I will preface my argument by saying that I fully support the usage of preferred gender pronouns. Stating PGPs can reduce the chance of accidental but still hurtful misgendering, and the normalization of sharing pronouns emphasizes the fact that everyone has preferred pronouns, not just trans and non-binary folks.

Does mandating nonbinary and gender-neutral pronouns violate free speech?

Backlash argument no. 2: mandating nonbinary and gender-neutral pronouns violates free speech. In plain English, that’s, “I will never, ever use that pronoun and you can’t make me.” The argument is stronger if you stomp your feet while you say the words.

What do people expect when they ask for your pronouns?

Unfortunately, the expectation when asked for your pronouns is not a rumination on the social constructions of gender. PGP-askers expect a she/her, a he/him, or occasionally a they/them, solely for the purpose of knowing how best to refer to you in third person.