Should I go back to my narcissistic ex?

The short answer to your question is: Whatever they did to you last time, they are likely to do to you again. This means that if they abused you before, they are highly likely to abuse you again. If you take them back to see if things could be different this time, you are likely to regret it.

Do I call my ex?

Again, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to call an ex. If you were really on a break and then you realized that you want to be together, then definitely call your ex, she says. However, if it isn’t an urgent matter or you don’t want to get back together, then think long and hard before calling an ex.

How long does it take for your ex to reach out?

“To fall out of love, there needs to be a period of usually at least 90 days with zero or very limited communication before you can realistically evaluate whether you can have a truly platonic relationship.” If that time period hasn’t passed, then you might want to hold off — at which point you may not even have the …

Why do narcissists blame their ex-partner for everything?

They become aggressive and even if the ex-partner has nothing to do with the separation, the narcissist wants to take revenge on him. The separation is the best reason for narcissistic people to blame their partner for everything. He enjoys blaming others for blaming you for everything that wasn’t good.

Is it possible to communicate with a narcissist ex?

Just because he is your ex, doesn’t mean his behavior ever stops. There will be times you need to communicate with your ex, especially if you must co-parent. But because he is a narcissist, the simple act of communicating seems close to impossible.

Why does my narcissist keep coming back to me?

Your narcissist keeps coming back, and remains fixated on you, because it is the easiest and quickest way to get a fix of Narcissistic Supply. And because you keep taking him back. Narcissists act (or refrain from acting) based solely on the availability of Narcissistic Supply (or lack thereof).

Do narcissists become better people after a breakup?

In some cases narcissists can also become better people, but this is rarely the case. Only the few of them see their mistakes after the separation and try to make the best of themselves. Only the few narcissists leave their ex in peace and devote themselves to their lives.