Should I let my child have friends?

Friendships help children develop important life skills like getting along with other people and sorting out conflicts and problems. Children with these skills are less likely to have social and emotional difficulties later in life. Play is a big part of how children connect with others and make friends at school.

How many friends does a child need?

“Kids need just one or two good friends. You don’t have to worry about them being the most popular kid in their class.”

Why won’t my child make friends?

There are a number of reasons kids may have trouble making friends, and (though this is by no means an exhaustive list) they often fall into two general categories: Some kids are simply shy and anxious. This can lead to difficulty engaging comfortably with peers.

How to make friends when your child is a teenager?

Children grow up, teenagers stop rebelling and parents learn to relax a little. Friends you are currently not keen on can be dropped overnight, turn into absolute charmers, or become the friend who is always there for your child, no matter what. Stay quiet and keep an eye on things, as well as being honest enough to admit you got someone wrong.

How to choose the right friend for your child?

2. Take the long-term view. Children grow up, teenagers stop rebelling and parents learn to relax a little. Friends you are currently not keen on can be dropped overnight, turn into absolute charmers, or become the friend who is always there for your child, no matter what.

How do you deal with a troubled child who doesn’t want friends?

Never interfere directly as your child won’t welcome that and it might mean they stop telling you what’s worrying them. Focus instead on building their confidence and developing other friendships alongside the one that troubles you.