Should I reach out for closure?

Do be respectful of their current relationship status. You can still reach out if you need closure or feel like you should apologize for something you did in the relationship, but be sure to directly state that you’re not looking to get back together—you just want to talk.

Can you break up without saying anything?

Be direct. Don’t beat around the bush or otherwise hint at the fact that you want to breakup without actually saying it. A less direct approach may seem kinder in the moment—but trust, it’s not. “The best thing to do is to just say the truth, which is we’re not a good fit for each other,” says Hendrix.

Why do people seek closure with their exes?

Most people seek “closure” to fill a selfish void. In my opinion, you shouldn’t be seeking this conversation for any of the following reasons: 1. Guilting them back into a relationship. Letting go of someone special is tough. You might love your ex and would do anything to get them back.

Should I contact my ex-boyfriend to get closure?

No.Your “closure” was the END of your relationship. Police yourself on this and be honest.You only want to contact your ex because you are clinging on.NOT TO GET CLOSURE! Unless you share kids,there is NO ACCEPTABLE REASON to contact your ex.You will argue that your case is an exception,IT REALLY ISN’T!

Does getting answers from your ex Help you get Over Your breakup?

And if you’re like a lot of newly single people, you may start to believe that getting answers from your ex will help you get over the breakup and feel better. “I just need closure,” are the all too familiar words that flash through your mind.

Is it possible to get closure in a relationship?

We reached out to therapists for their take, and the answer was a wholehearted yes. Here’s what they told us, and how to get the kind of closure that allows you to truly move forward. The main benefit of getting closure is that it helps you work out powerful or conflicting feelings that might be putting your life in stall.