Should I text my crush after no contact?

Texting a crush that hasn’t reached out to you can be intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be! If there haven’t been many (or any) texts exchanged, look at reaching out to your crush as you getting to set the texting tone yourself. Above all, when reaching out to a crush after no contact, be yourself!

How long does it take a crush to fade?

Of course, a limerence stage can last a very short or long period of time, but, on average, this state generally lasts between three months and 36 months. The more contact and sexual intimacy people have during the limerence stage, the more likely it is that the crush will fade more quickly.

How long should I wait after 30 days of no contact?

Wait another week or so at the very least. The 30 days of no contact are designed to help you get your life back on track. You’ve had 30 days to create a new normal and establish a new healthy routine for yourself.

Do you contact your ex first after the no contact rule ends?

A few days ago one of my coaching clients contacted me with an interesting request. She basically told me that most of the women who implement the no contact rule end up contacting their exes first after the no contact rule is over. For example, lets say that you were to use the no contact rule on your ex boyfriend for 30 days.

Does no contact really work and does it really work?

Yes, absolutely, it does all the time. But it will only really work if you do the work. As in, you work on yourself during this time and gain all the benefits of the no contact period. We all have a tendency to idealize the past, to romanticize what we don’t have anymore.

Does no contact make your ex think negative thoughts about you?

When I created The Ex Boyfriend Recovery Program a few years ago and I told people that using a no contact rule on an ex might make an ex think negative thoughts about them they always seem to get upset and think the strategy doesn’t work. I actually don’t even blame them for getting upset either.