What is situational couple violence?

Situational couple violence (SCV) (situationally-provoked violence) Violence that occurs because the couple has conflict which turns into arguments that can escalate into emotional and possibly physical violence. SCV often involves both partners (as opposed to intimate terrorism).

What are the four basic patterns of partner violence?

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) identifies four types of intimate partner violence—physical violence, sexual violence, stalking, and psychological aggression.

What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn’t care about you?

He knows you want to go to graduate school, medical school, or law school, but he just doesn’t care. Instead of supporting you and helping you search for the best programs, he says, “Oh, that’s nice.” This could be part of a much larger issue: He might not be interested in many of your preferences and desires, big or small.

Why should I Stay with my boyfriend?

You’ve probably had many happy times together. He’s a part of your life that will always feel valuable and has contributed to the person you are now, but that isn’t necessarily a reason to stay. Of course, you could get some couple counselling and maybe sort out new ways forward and perhaps hear each other better.

What to do when you are not happy around your boyfriend?

Trust your instincts and don’t overanalyze your emotions. If you are not happy around him a majority of the time, pay attention to these feelings. This is especially true if you are in a situation (e.g., party, favorite restaurant, etc.) that is supposed to be enjoyable.

How do I tell my boyfriend I want to leave him?

We don’t usually want to hurt people but making it the reason not to go is a mistake. I think you have to level with him. Be clear that the conversation can’t go in the usual direction. It might be helpful to actually say that the reason you so often want to leave is because he finds it so difficult to acknowledge any problems in the relationship.