What should I know before dating an Intj?

So, here are some facts about the INTJ personality you should know before dating them.

• INTJ personalities need a lot of encouragement before making the first move.
• This personality type plans obsessively.
• They become viscerally angry when others are illogical.
• They loathe small talk.
• INTJs view sex as a mental act.

Why is it hard to date an INTJ?

For some, INTJs appear too aloof, distant, or cold for dating. For this reason, people who are sensitive to criticism, extremely concerned about what others think, or prone to people-pleasing rather than being straightforward might find dating an INTJ a nearly impossible task.

How to date an INTJ man in a relationship?

Integrating your thoughts and feelings with hers in order to come up with a way forward that helps you grow together as a couple. Sharing these deep, inner feelings does not always come naturally to INTJ men in particular. If you plan to date when you’re an INTJ man, you will want to develop this emotional side of yourself. So, what’s the problem?

What is the INTJ personality?

Like the INTP type that we covered last week, INTJs observe the world on a very internal basis. You thrive best when you have time alone to recharge (introversion), and you navigate situations with your well-honed intuition. You primarily make decisions based on logic and reason (thinking) more than your feelings or the feelings of others.

Are intjs good for short term flings?

Many INTJs eschew short-term flings and hit the brakes at the first sign of infatuation — because we’re already wondering if it will work long-term. The INTJ is a rare personality type, even among introverts, and not many people “get” us. As a result, we’re careful about committing and may wait a long time to let you in.

Do intjs find other intjs attractive?

INTJ – Of course, an INTJ will find another INTJ most attractive as they are exactly the same. Sharing identical qualities means they know precisely where they are with each other. ISTJ – These are practical, responsible and private people. These traits appeal to an INTJ.