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When should I apologize to my friend?

When should I apologize to my friend?

Even if you don’t think you did anything wrong, you should still apologize because it should make your friend a lot happier and doesn’t make it sound like you’re blaming them. If they forgive you that great. You’ve got a friend back but if not accept it and move on.

Is it bad to say sorry a lot?

It’s a bad habit. If you’ve been over-apologizing or listening to others over-apologize for a long time, you may be doing it unconsciously. It’s become an automatic response that you do without thinking about it.

Why does my friend apologize so much?

“Over-apologizing can stem from being too hard on ourselves or beating ourselves up for things,” Dr. Juliana Breines, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Rhode Island, explained. In addition to anxiety, another mental health disorder that can lead people to over-apologize is OCD.

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Is it ever OK to apologize when you’ve done nothing wrong?

If you value the relationship more than being right, are willing to lose a small battle for the sake of winning the larger war, or need to take one for you team, it’s OK to apologize—even if you’ve done nothing wrong. Loading… Great points, but be certain that there is not an ounce of sarcasm in the apology.

Should we gloat when the other person is in the wrong?

If the other person is in the wrong, then we can gloat in the satisfaction of being right. It’s easy to dive into the deep end of the pool of self-righteousness.

How effective is an apology?

An apology is only effective as the action that follows it. If a person keeps committing the same “trust busting” act, then it shows their apologies are not sincere because they are changing their behavior.

What should I do if a friend holds a grudge against me?

If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God.”