Why are narcissists so easily bored?

Due to their reward and novelty-seeking behaviors, Dr. Ramani adds that narcissists not only get bored easily with new things, but also new people. “They engage in pleasure first,” says Dr. Ramani.

Do narcissists get bored easily?

Another is that once a covert narcissist has received the empty approval they crave from the people around them, they will lose interest and become bored. In fact, boredom is just one of many unpleasant side-effects to keeping narcissism bottled up.

Why does talking to a narcissist feel like being micro discarded?

Talking to the narcissist when they are like this feels like being micro-discarded many times during the conversation. It hurts. Why do they do this? It’s because they never want to give or give back. They never want to give you any emotional blessings.

Why do narcissists hate when you talk to them?

They hate the fact that you are talking. Because nothing you said contains any ‘me’ for them. This means narcissists are allergic to any topic that is not about them or their pet interests. That means asymtotically 100\% of any topic any genuine, authentic person would bring up.

What should I expect from a narcissist?

To expect better of a narcissist is to seek disappointment, they cannot be better, when being their true self, they can only be sub-par. Knowing this makes it easier to cope with them. Let me also explain the short-circuited part better (thanks Bassel Chibani ).

What topics are narcissists allergic to?

This means narcissists are allergic to any topic that is not about them or their pet interests. That means asymtotically 100\% of any topic any genuine, authentic person would bring up. The only people who can escape this fate are either fresh supply, or sycophantic flying monkeys who only tell the narcissist what the narcissist wants to hear.