Why being loyal is bad?

Loyalty is the most overvalued value. The plea for loyalty is almost always invoked when loyalty is not deserved. When people demand your loyalty what they’re usually trying to do is escape accountability. Being loyal to the undeserving is also bad for society because tolerating bad behavior actually condones it.

What does it mean when your loyal to someone?

If you are faithful and devoted to someone or something, you’re loyal. If you refuse to buy milk from anyone other than Farmer Jones, then you’re a very loyal customer. Someone who is loyal is reliable and always true, like your trusty dog. A loyal friend supports you all the time, no matter what.

Why does it hurt when we don’t loyalty to others?

If we’re not being loyal and we’re actually engaging unhealthily, it’s unrealistic to expect that what will be sent back is going to be healthy – that would be to ignore the reality of the situation. It hurts when we’ve been loyal to someone and they betray us. It hurts when our loyalty is taken for us being a sucker.

Do You give your loyalty to people you don’t know?

Giving your loyalty to people who don’t know their arse from their elbow, is a misappropriation of this quality and the beauty you have within to feel connected with people. Ultimately, loyalty starts at home. Don’t go giving it away until you know that you unquestionably have your own back.

Is loyalty good or bad for society?

Being loyal to the undeserving is also bad for society because tolerating bad behavior actually condones it. I am not saying loyalty has no value but rather being loyal to people and organizations who do not keep their promises, maintain standards, play favorites or exploit you is self-destructive. So consider this…

Is loyalty self-destructive?

When people demand your loyalty what they’re usually trying to do is escape accountability. I am not saying loyalty has no value but rather being loyal to people and organizations who do not keep their promises, maintain standards, play favorites or exploit you is self-destructive.