Why do cheaters always play the victim?

Liars and cheaters rewrite their pasts to make them feel better about themselves. They morph what really happened into something that conveniently casts them as the innocent party — and, in turn, casts you as the perpetrator.

Why do guys play the victim?

Individuals who habitually indulge in self-victimisation (also known as playing the victim) do so for various reasons: to control or influence other people’s thoughts, feelings and actions; to justify their abuse of others; to seek attention; or, as a way of coping with situations.

What does stop playing the victim mean?

Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card, or self-victimization) is the fabrication or exaggeration of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy, attention seeking or diffusion of responsibility.

Why can’t you spot a cheating man?

When men cheat, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They simply lack self-discipline or control. Most cheating men aren’t spotted because what we believe as the reasons for cheating are just myths. One of the surest ways to save your marriage is to understand the cheating phenomenon.

How do men justify cheating?

To justify cheating, men may claim that what they did shouldn’t “count” as cheating, or that they cheated due to a lack of sex. The most important thing for men to remember is that they have options other than cheating: such as therapy and being honest with their partner.

What percentage of men cheat?

Though both men and women cheat, statistics reveal that more men than women have confessed to having affairs after marriage. So, what percentage of people cheat? If you ask what percentage of men cheat and what percentage of women cheat, it’s not surprising that men are 7 percent more likely to cheat than women are. Do all men cheat?

Does cheating have anything to do with Love?

Cheating has nothing to do with love. In fact, it has everything to do with discipline. It’s not love that stimulates hormonal vibrations within the body, but sight and touch do. It takes discipline and self-control for a man to overcome the alluring beauty, soft touch and romantic voice of his colleague or female friend.