Why do I always find a problem in my relationship?

Couples get into problems when they’re afraid to be honest — usually because they think the truth will upset their partner and might jeopardize the relationship. They don’t express their hurt or to ask for the love or support they want, or they do so in a way that’s critical or blaming.

What does finding fault with others mean?

to criticize someone or something, often after deliberately looking for mistakes. It’s demoralizing to work for someone who constantly finds fault with you. Synonyms and related words. To criticize, accuse or blame.

Why does my partner always find things wrong with Me?

The truth is that anyone who finds fault with others is usually unhappy with themselves and their own lives. They cope with these undesirable feelings by projecting them onto their partner. Perhaps your mate grew up with a critical parent and learned to communicate that way.

Do you live with a spouse who seem to always find fault?

Living with a spouse who seems to always find fault can be difficult and painful. It’s important for your emotional and mental well-being to find ways of handling the situation. Regaining harmony is possible when both parties equip themselves with the tools to communicate clearly and respectfully.

Are You part of the problem in your relationship?

You assume you’re not part of the problem. If you don’t think you’re partly to blame for the less-than-ideal state of your relationship, we have news for you: you are the problem. No one is completely guiltless in a relationship.

Is it easy to blame your spouse for things going wrong?

I mess up all the time and it is easy to blame your spouse (or yourself) for things going wrong in a marriage. So let’s make sure we are all on the same page. To blame someone is to find fault with something that they did or are doing. It doesn’t mean, necessarily, that what they are doing is wrong.