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Why do I always put myself down?

Why do I always put myself down?

Why You Might Put Yourself Down You may feel insecure, believe you’re not worthy or it might be a habit to put yourself down. You could be used to saying “I can’t,” “I don’t have talent,” “I’m ugly,” “I’m stupid” or “I’m useless.” You might have been put down by others in the past and continue to put yourself down.

Why do I like helping others so much?

Scientists have been studying a phenomenon called “helper’s high”: helping others releases endorphins which, in turn, improves mood and boosts self-esteem. In short, helping others feels good. It’s possible that helping others does more for the happiness of the person helping than the person who receives the help.

Why do I always feel the need for Love?

Some past experiences might make the person unsure of his real worth and thus always make him in need for love or a proof that he is as good as others. (see How your past affects your personality) Here are some examples of events that might result in that intense need of love:

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Do you feel the need to have everyone like you?

The majority of people may like a kind and outgoing person, but not all. Therefore, it is best to focus on your friends and maybe try to make new ones. Feeling the need to have everyone like you is a common mistake that many have. It usually deals with low self esteem or maybe others not being kind to you as a child.

Is it normal to feel like your partner Loves you More?

While it may sound horrible to say out loud, it’s actually pretty common to feel like your partner loves you more than you love them. (Or vice versa.) And it doesn’t necessarily mean something’s wrong with your relationship. “There’s nothing wrong with one person loving the other just a little bit more,” dating coach Julie Spira tells Bustle.

Do You and your partner love each other the same way?

You and your partner may just love differently. Certain components of love (such as the romantic component) may not be shared equally. That’s not to say that your partner doesn’t care for you, but maybe not in the same way you care for them. For some, just being with someone they love and care for a great deal is enough and all they’ll ever need.