Why do I feel like I need to please everyone?

Other people might please others because they want to avoid internal bad feelings such as: Fear of rejection: They are afraid to voice their opinions because they are afraid people would reject who they are. Loneliness: They want to fit in and they think that by pleasing others, they would feel included.

Why do I always try to help others?

Saviors often feel driven to save others because they believe no one else can. This ties back to fantasies of omnipotence. Maybe you don’t really believe you’re all-powerful. But believing you have the ability to rescue someone or improve their life comes from a similar place.

Why can’t some people be pleased with their work?

Some people simply can’t be pleased no matter what you do. They won’t be pleased because they either just don’t like you or they just don’t like your work. They may not even have a specific reason they can pinpoint. Most people aren’t very logical. 2. Everybody and their mother has an opinion.

Should you try to please everyone all the time?

You absolutely shouldn’t try to please everyone all the time. It’s just not worth it. Not only will you begin to live your life according to someone else’s standards, but you’ll deplete yourself of any sense of happiness or enthusiasm.

Is it worth trying to please everyone in life?

If it doesn’t make you happy, then it isn’t worth doing. Pleasing other people, at the very least, should please you simultaneously. If you find that pleasing other people is making you miserable, you clearly shouldn’t be trying to please them. Life is too short to allow yourself to be miserable, especially when there are much better options.

Is it possible to keep everyone pleased?

1. It’s literally impossible to keep everyone pleased. You can’t do it. You can try — and fail miserably — but you will never succeed. Some people simply can’t be pleased no matter what you do. They won’t be pleased because they either just don’t like you or they just don’t like your work.