Why do I have so much hate for my sister?

Abuse: If your sister has abused you or deeply hurt you in some way it may cause you to feel hatred toward her. “Real hate usually means there’s been some experience of serious abuse from that person or the feeling they’ve taken advantage of you in a life-changing way.

How can I tolerate my younger sister?

Walk away. If your little sister is being really annoying, and taking a deep breath doesn’t help, you can walk away from her. Go into another room and do something that’s just for you – read a book or play with your favorite toys. Some time alone can help you calm down.

Do I need attention from my sister?

Sit with the hunger and let it gnaw and scream and cry until it settles down, or until it gets what it needs from you. But that’s OK. This thing you think you need — this attention from someone, this respect, this whatever it is that you want so much from your sister — you don’t really need it. You’re just in the habit of thinking you need it.

What happens when siblings don’t get along?

Many siblings who don’t get along may have avoided contact fairly easily for years but when suddenly forced to deal with each other and their parents or extended family in a stressful situation, a cold war can escalate into open conflict.

Is it possible to be estranged from your brother or sister?

Since few people today see sibling bonds as a central aspect of adult life, it’s often easy for someone estranged from a brother or sister to cover the disconnect by citing geographical distance: “My brother lives in Phoenix, so I just don’t see him much.”

Is it better to stop speaking to your siblings?

It’s a bummer when I hear about siblings who have nothing in common, but totally understand that it’s much better to stop speaking to a sibling than to let a toxic relationship fester for years. Not all sisters get along, whether it is based on personality differences, or possibly due to household issues from the past.