Why do I like hanging out with my friends more than my family?

Friends usually have similar interests and hobbies to us. They understand some of the struggles we are going through, because they may be also going through those same struggles. For some people, friends turn into family, because that bond becomes so great and inseparable, they may as well be family.

How do I make my parents understand me?

For Kids: How to Talk So Parents Will Listen

1. Say what you mean, and be specific.
2. Try not to be defensive.
3. Give your parents a chance to think things over.
4. Don’t make your parents guess what is important to you.
5. Try to pick a time to talk that is good for everyone.
6. Introduce your parents to things you enjoy.

Why do we value friends and family?

It is important to surround ourselves with family and friends for support and comfort in both times of joy and distress. Studies have shown that having supportive relationships is a strong protective factor against mental illnesses and helps to increase our mental well-being.

Why do I feel like no one understands me all the time?

Because you don’t understand that you are a unique person. Nobody can feel what you are feeling at any given point of time. For someone to understand you all the time, they would have to become you. You can dishearten yourself with this knowledge.

Why do I feel like people don’t like me?

Because at the subconscious level of our minds, we associate familiar with safe. That’s why normal (aka ordinary) tends to be perceived as good. So if you feel that people don’t like you, your unconventional way of thinking could be to blame.

Do you think your friends are smarter than you?

The people who are friends with you, have all chosen to be friends with you, even though you think they are smarter than you. That suggests you are a person of high quality. Why? Because they aren’t just being your friend because you are so smart.

Why do I feel dumb compared to my friends?

From your perspective, you feel dumb, compared to your friends, and you believe this makes you an inferior person. My perspective is different. The people who are friends with you, have all chosen to be friends with you, even though you think they are smarter than you. That suggests you are a person of high quality.