Why do I like playing dumb?
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Why do I like playing dumb?
When men play dumb it might seem manipulative but it is actually a way of conveying warmth, psychologists say. Although playing the fool may not seem like the most likable trait, research suggests that there is some truth to the trope of the lovable idiot and bumbling dad.
How can I be smart and dumb?
Here are seven rules to help you smarten up by playing dumb when you see or hear something stupid:
- Put on your best poker face.
- But don’t overplay your hand.
- Be inconspicuous.
- Muzzle your inner know-it-all.
- Don’t expect it to be easy.
- Don’t play dumb too often.
- Don’t feed the fire.
- Pick and choose your targets.
What does acting dumb mean?
to pretend not to know something
: to pretend not to know something If anybody asks you where I am, act dumb.
Do you pretend to be more ignorant or stupid than you really?
Do not pretend to be more ignorant or stupid than you really are too often, or people will either think that you truly are brainless, or that you are intentionally setting out to manipulate them. You should never tell anyone that you use this tactic, because they are unlikely to ever trust you fully in the future.
How can you tell if a person is playing dumb?
On the other hand, smart people sometimes overdo it, i.e. their questions are just a little too dumb. This is a red flag that signifies that they are trying to appear ignorant. An intelligent person who is playing dumb will gradually bring you round to their point of view.
Should you ever play dumb in a conversation?
You should never tell anyone that you use this tactic, because they are unlikely to ever trust you fully in the future. Be smart when choosing your moment. Only play dumb when it will help you get valuable information. For example, if you pretend that you are oblivious to office politics, other people will start to confide in you.
Should you play dumb or be smart at work?
Be smart when choosing your moment. Only play dumb when it will help you get valuable information. For example, if you pretend that you are oblivious to office politics, other people will start to confide in you. This gives you useful information about all the key players in the company. [3]