Why do they keep pushing me away?

Pushing people away is one way of avoiding intimacy. In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense mechanism for people afraid of getting hurt in relationships. The thought of a close intimate relationship makes you uncomfortable, so you do what you can to avoid intimacy as a means of self-preservation.

Why does he keep pushing me away and coming back?

Many men pull away because they are afraid of getting hurt, afraid of coming on too strong, and afraid of commitment. When men pull away, many of them come back. When men pull away, give him space but not silence. Express your honest feelings about his absence, but don’t punish him emotionally.

Why does he pull me in and push me away?

Men fear being overwhelmed and taken over in an all-consuming relationship void of any video games, sporting events or nights out with the guys. Believe it or not, they also fear rejection and abandonment. Men play out unconscious and conscious games which create a maddening push-pull with your heart.

Why do we push him away?

…Because pushing him away is a lot better than feeling him ‘here’ with us and consequently being more vulnerable to his betrayal. Especially if we’ve been truly open and vulnerable to him. …Because we want you to work harder for us.

How do you deal with people who always push you away?

1: Give them and yourself space. 2: Do not chase them up at all. 3: Continue to live your life as your normally do. 4: Do some reflecting and see it there’s anything you may have actually said or done to cause them to push you away.

What to do when your boyfriend is pushing you away?

It’s hard for women not to freak out and feel rejected when their guys are pushing them away, but more often than not, it has nothing to do with you. Trust that he cares for you and if he’s going to leave, well then there is nothing you can do about it anyway.

Why does my boyfriend chase me around when he likes me?

When someone does this especially when they do like or even love you, it’s usually because they’re scared of being hurt again, scared of being vulnerable and possibly scared of loving again. 1: Give them and yourself space. 2: Do not chase them up at all.

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