Why does it look like I cant find love?

“If you consciously want a lasting relationship but keep getting a different result, you may be subconsciously drawn to unavailable partners,” says Zarrabi. In other words, the reason you haven’t found love yet could be that you’re choosing to be with people who can’t really give you what you need and deserve.

Why do we sometimes find it hard to love others?

There are many reasons why some people are hard to love. It could be because of past hurt or trauma that they’ve experienced in life or relationships. Or it could be any number of other things. If you’re struggling in a relationship with loving someone, it could be a sign that the relationship is unhealthy.

Why is it so difficult to find true love?

Any number of things could make finding true love, according to God’s design, difficult. Here we will focus on a few big obstacles that we face: Thinking there is only one “right” person for us. This is a lie that can keep us fearful that we’re settling for less than the best. Waiting for one’s perfect “soul mate” to show up can be a long wait.

Why is it so difficult for us to love others?

Another reason it can be difficult for us to love others is that we sometimes misunderstand what true love is. We tend to think of love as primarily an emotional response. The problem is that we cannot always control our emotions. We can certainly control what we do because of the emotions,…

Is “love” what we’re really looking for?

If the kind of “love” we see demonstrated in today’s sex-saturated culture is what we’re looking for, no wonder it seems difficult to find; it’s not true love we’re after but an experience that, by nature, can’t last for long. The Bible gives a much different picture of love.

How can I find true love?

Wise, godly people who know us well can also provide guidance in finding true love. Thinking that a person will or can fulfill us. Only God can truly fulfill us, so we don’t have to find romantic love to have a sense of fulfillment!