Would Your Life be better if you changed something in the past?

Looking back on any moment (s) in your past and thinking that if you changed something your life would have been happier and better off is an unwise thing to do. The reason is, because by changing just one thing, even what seems like an insignificant event can and does change everything else that follows…and it can certainly do so in ways

Does our past shape our future?

Back to the future- Many people feel that our past shapes our future. Along these lines there are people who will say that what others have done in the past will continue to be a pattern that shows up in the future. The question here is, “Is there any truth to this?” The answer is “yes” and “no.” It depends.

Would things have turned out better if you changed just one thing?

It is very tempting to say that if you changed just one thing from the past that things would have turned out better. On the flip side along with this is also the tendency to say, “I don’t even want to think about what took place in the past, I just want to forget about it altogether.” Really? Are you sure about this too? Here’s the deal…

Is it wrong to look back in the past?

There’s nothing wrong with looking back in your past, it just depends on how you do so. Looking back on any moment (s) in your past and thinking that if you changed something your life would have been happier and better off is an unwise thing to do.

Are you prepared for change in Your Life?

Change can come into our lives as a result of a crisis, as a result of choice or just by chance. In either situation, we are all faced with having to make a choice – do we make the change or not? I believe that it is better to be prepared for change because we have more control over how we react to the change we are having to face in our lives.

Are You unprepared and resistant to change?

When you are unprepared and resistant to change, then you have no control or choice as to how you want to live your life. You live your life as a reactionary rather than an activator of change. “Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes.

Why is it important to be grateful for the things you have?

The reason is, because by changing just one thing, even what seems like an insignificant event can and does change everything else that follows…and it can certainly do so in ways that you may not want. Therefore it is wise to be grateful for what has taken place in your life no matter what it was and see how it has helped you.

How do you build a habit of change?

To build the habit of changing you should: Be aware of how you do things. Don’t work and live on autopilot. Continually find something you can change. From your observation, try to find what you can change. Write your findings in a journal. Don’t waste your time by finding the same thing twice. Take the first step to change.